Monday, April 19, 2010
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Monday, April 12, 2010
"Born With It"
One of the most common misconceptions of singing is that those who can sing must have been "born with it". There are many people out there who believe that singing can't be learnt. In other words, you either have it or you don't. Though I come from a long line of musicians and singers and had started singing at a young age, I never considered myself as being someone who was "born" a singer. In fact, singing was never something that came easily or naturally to me. By the time I was 20 years old, I had become so frustrated with my voice that I gave up on singing entirely. Although my mother (and voice teacher) never stopped encouraging me, I couldn't help but think that I would never be as good as I wanted to be and that it was better to quit and leave singing to those who were really gifted at it.
I realise now that that particular moment in my life had been my first lesson in teaching: you cannot teach someone who has given up on learning. I left Hong Kong and spent the next several years studying other arts subjects of interest. I even spent those few years abroad telling everyone that I couldn't sing. It wasn't until I had graduated from college, moved back to Hong Kong and gotten a full-time job at a film production company that I realised there was something missing in my life.
Being around music and music-lovers again made me realise just how much I had missed out on in those few years. I immediately threw myself back into singing. I started training again and rediscovered my passion for music. I even started performing in local music productions just so I could practice singing on stage again. I had to work extra-hard to get my voice back in shape because I had stopped training for such a long time. During that time, I also started assisting and observing my mother in her singing classes. I was so inspired by what she was doing and by the differences she was making in people's lives that I decided to pursue a certificate in teaching singing as well.
Although I know I will never get back those several years where I had stopped training, I feel truly blessed that I can share my struggles and experiences with those who are also frustrated with their voices. I hope I will always be lucky enough to have the opportunity to inspire others in the way that I have been inspired by those I call my teachers.